The secret of sexual life in the six age groups

Sexual life is an important part of a married life. A harmonious and harmonious sex life is the natural needs of men and women’s physiology. It is the common aspiration of both husband and wife. Both sides have the obligation to cooperate closely and have the right to be satisfied. In the process of sexual life, from the stimulation of sexual excitement to emotional communication, from the input of both mind and body to the common climax of sexual desire, there are important psychological factors. As long as one party lacks understanding of sexual knowledge, or if one party adopts a negative attitude, the two sides will not achieve emotional harmony. Especially for women, the role of sexual psychology has a greater impact, and the man must understand this feature in order to play a more active role in the husband and wife life. Many women are afraid that the other side will despise themselves and desperately suppress the real reaction and emotions to show their own weight and height. Some women have strong conservative attitudes and believe that sex life has to fulfill its obligations and adopt a negative and passive attitude. The shame, restraint, fear and negative psychology of this talent of women is the resistance to stimulate and accelerate sexual excitement. It is unrealistic to expect them to liberate themselves from these psychological shackles. Especially when a few women have weak sexual desire before marriage, it is even more difficult to get rid of this predicament. The old idea is that women should be completely passive in their sexual life, and the study of modern science overturns this outdated concept. It turns out that women learn to take the initiative in their sexual life, and it is necessary for them to satisfy their own sexual pleasure and satisfy both parties. The characteristics of male sexual response determine their sexual desire, and they can be stimulated and progressed to the level of complete excitement at any time. Women only have a strong orgasm before or after ovulation, and even then, they are more excited and excited than men. Before and after puberty, male sexual desire is generalized around the genitals, and women are gradually concentrated from the generalization to the genital area. After middle age, men began to generalize, and women instead concentrated on reproduction. Therefore, men pay more attention to sexual intercourse, and women have a wide range of sexual gratification. Men only have ejaculation to bring pleasure, women also have childbirth, breastfeeding, etc. can bring pleasure. Every couple has their own characteristics in their sexual life. Only when they understand the structure and function of the male and female reproductive organs, and pay attention to the other party’s reaction methods and special wishes, can the sexual life be harmonious and harmonious. The male side often has the main responsibility in both the society and the family. The strong sense of professionalism and responsibility makes them consume a lot of mental or physical strength, and they are exhausted at night. Wife should wisely choose the right time to take the initiative, to lead her husband to completely relax the nerves and muscles that continue to be nervous through a happy sex life, eliminate the troubles and troubles, and appreciate the happiness and happiness of family and marriage life. . The wife should be a calm harbor after the man returns, rather than creating a source of new tension. Men and women have different psychological characteristics. Men will be proud of their own strength and satisfaction of both parties, while women will affirm their attraction in sexual satisfaction. Therefore, men and women have different performances in sexual dysfunction. Men are most likely to fail in the completion of sexual behavior, mainly in impotence and premature ejaculation. Women are prone to problems in terms of sexual satisfaction, with low sexual desire and no sexual desire. If there is no common requirement in sexual life, mutual understanding and respect will hurt the other’s feelings, and even cause the other party to lose interest. In severe cases, it may cause sexual dysfunction and lead to the breakdown of marriage. Some young men are poisoned by the remnants of feudal husbandship and regard their wives as their own accessories. Regardless of whether the woman has sexual requirements or even cherish the health of the other party, she still forcibly rejoices when her wife is unwell or has a bad mood. If she does not, she will be furious and even violent. This kind of rude behavior will inevitably cause the woman to be nervous, disgusted and fearful, thinking that this is an insult to her personality. In the long run, women will develop into low sexual desire, and even some women develop from a reserved attitude to confrontational psychology, intentionally cold and refuse the man’s request, and even play with each other’s feelings. This in turn will hurt the man’s self-esteem, tired of sexual life and disappointment, plus anxiety and anger, may develop into sexual dysfunction such as impotence. All of these have planted the root cause, which will eventually lead to the collapse of the husband and wife and the breakdown of the family. Therefore, in order to obtain a happy and coordinated sex life, we must pay attention to the following points: Both sides must have sexual desires and impulses, and must not be reluctant. Both sides must be highly focused and not distracted. Both sexually excited and euphoric emotions should infect each other and excite each other. Includes expressions, gestures, language, and intonation. People who love each other like to know each other and make each other happy, giving and providing everything the other person needs. Love, need time, need to be sincere, and need a quick exchange of feelings. Only on the basis of understanding and respect, plus full understanding of sexual knowledge, husband and wife life can be harmonious. It is worth noting that the requirements and responses of men and women to sexual life are age-specific. Understanding these characteristics and understanding each other is also a factor in the harmony of sexual life. Let’s look at the gap between the two sexes from the age. 1, 20-30 years old: Men are at the peak of sex, excited, sexy, and easy to re-excite after the climax. Women are in a state of shame and restraint, and they cannot be emotionally open. Male sexual desire is stronger than female. 2, 31-40 years old: male sexual function began to decline, but the ability to control increased, Can better meet the sexual requirements of women. Women begin to break through psychological barriers, learn more about their bodies, and know how to achieve satisfaction to reach a climax. 3, 41-50 years old: male sexual desire is reduced, energy is limited, sexual excitement is slow, need more stimulation to reach the peak. But the experience is more abundant, and it can satisfy the woman’s sexual requirements more thoughtfully and warmly. Female sexual desire increased, and sexual needs also reached a peak. Psychological depression and obstacles are swept away, no longer pretending to be reserved. After entering the menopause, the vagina is dry and requires the use of a lubricant. This decade is the uncoordinated phase of sexual life. After middle age, female sexual desire can exceed males. Shaofu’s wife can reach 1/8-1/5 in the West. 4, 51-60 years old: the sexual requirements of both sides tend to coordinate. Female requirements have begun to decrease. 5, 61-70 years old: Both sexual functions tend to degenerate, but the sexual life of some loving couples can still continue. According to some surveys, more than 60% of partners still insist on regular sexual intercourse. Older women still have sexual desire, and excessive inhibition will be detrimental to health. Keeping sex with nature will make them feel more comfortable in their later years. 6, 71 years old or older: There are reports that one in ten couples still live a regular sex life. In short, to maintain a happy sex life will undoubtedly have a great benefit to the health of couples. Foreign surveys show that women who are separated or divorced are more likely to be infected than women who are well-married because their immunity is low and their ex-husbands often have poor health. The survey also showed that some people who still maintain a marriage relationship but have a bad relationship are often less immune than those who are separated or divorced. It can be seen that a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life are very important to health. Kang is not good. Keeping sex with nature will make them feel more comfortable in their later years. 6, 71 years old or older: There are reports that one in ten couples still live a regular sex life. In short, to maintain a happy sex life will undoubtedly have a great benefit to the health of couples. Foreign surveys show that women who are separated or divorced are more likely to be infected than women who are well-married because their immunity is low and their ex-husbands often have poor health. The survey also showed that some people who still maintain a marriage relationship but have a bad relationship are often less immune than those who are separated or divorced. It can be seen that a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life are very important to health. Kang is not good. Keeping sex with nature will make them feel more comfortable in their later years. 6, 71 years old or older: There are reports that one in ten couples still live a regular sex life. In short, to maintain a happy sex life will undoubtedly have a great benefit to the health of couples. Foreign surveys show that women who are separated or divorced are more likely to be infected than women who are well-married because their immunity is low and their ex-husbands often have poor health. The survey also showed that some people who still maintain a marriage relationship but have a bad relationship are often less immune than those who are separated or divorced. It can be seen that a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life are very important to health.